.But what Astrid does not recognize but is actually a fact that both Ortega and O'Hara-- who possesses 2 kids-- can vouch for: The simple fact that your relationship with your moms and dads modifications and also advances as you each grow older, as well as with any luck for the better. "Your globe centers around [your youngsters] when they're children [and] it is actually a great deal work yet lovely," O'Hara points out. "Eventually, you actually miss that, due to the fact that then you can't receive all of them to do anything you wish them to accomplish, given that they start creating their very own minds, their own point of views." As well as ultimately, you find yourself in the place O'Hara, whose children reside in their 20s and also 30s, finds herself right now, capable to pick up from her children. "They are actually only such great youthful people," she mentions. "I'm not their friend, yet I enjoy having conversations along with them as well as being familiar with how they think about lifestyle.".